In London the local citizens said honestly that: thanks for chinese company purchasing MG Rover, which makes British favorite sports auto MG can relive again and continue its resplendence, in the near future, American and German would like to say so.

From auto consumption country to a auto manufacture country, the role change is too much for chinese consumer and manufacturer, maybe it is a little sudden, but they are enjoying it. Overview the several months’ auto sales volume, chinese auto sales volume has exceeded American auto in successive five months and become the biggest auto market in the world, the global auto situation has changed by china. Now the action of new energy exploitation starts to work vigorously.

After the breaking of financial crisis, auto magnates declare bankruptcy in succession, some other auto markets keep falling, while chinese auto companies are totally different, they are busy in maing cars overtime for consumers who are waiting in queue. This year, chinese auto Roewe 550 created high sale monthly, its month sale has reached 6000. Several years ago, there are some other joint venture auto brands monopolizing the market, now the cake has carved up by Roewe for a big part. In 2009, the chinese auto market and economy has brought great trust for global auto manufacturers, it is obvious that the year sales volume has broke through hundreds millon. In the future, the most advanced techniques, the newest auto styles will not just appear in Japanese Tokyo, American Detroit, German Frankfurt, they are struggling to send to china first, we can see  it from this year’s Shanghai Auto Exhibition.

Nowadays, the global auto industry is reforming unprecedentedly, chinese auto has stood the same running line with international meganates about at new energy aspect. Taking BYD brand as representitive, the dosmetic new energy auto even has reached the level of internation. In the nearly future, china would be not just a big market in world auto, but also a effective auto brand.

Imagine that can we just want love but not marriage? Love and marriage, how to make a choice? Some people say that marriage makes the two entering the heaven, while some other say marriage brings them to the hell. From the side of woman, marriage means they have no chance of being a free girl, means that they can not have the time of romance, without the present of flower and   candlelight dinner, they only have after marriage are piles of housework, the crying of children, the complain from mother in-law, they have more duty, responsibility and hardness, but what they lose is themselves. Being together happily for a life is the hope of all the couples. However, in the city full of desires, some couples are broke due to the third person, they even claim that it is to chase a better life. Accoring to a investigation, every nine falimies would have one suffering the disturb of third person, the problem of third person has become a un-ignorable social phenomenon.

In recent times, man are more likely to have affair with other woman, while woman also accept all kinds of lust from outer and inner world. The gradually independent wives in marriage, which makes husbands are trapped in the “green hat”. In extramarital affair, man are looking for the excitement of sex, while woman need the satisfying of love. The chasing of high quality life are the main reason of it. When the self emotion in marriage can not be satisfied, they will seek for the compensation from out of marriage.

A woman named Wumei said in her diary: my ex-husband was very traditional and inflexible. He always said that a couple should live together harmoniously, while I was just tied about the life of dead water. Accidentally, I met with Cheng, he had the same suffering as me. We were both divorced at last, and living together for nearly half an year, after that I found the life is almost the same as the past, and created many new problems. The experts analyze that extramarital affair is just like smoking, happy but also suffered, when smoking the toxin is filtrated into the second half part, wise man will only smoke the front half part. While woman are different, they pay more attention to the result, therefore, sometimes even though they know it is abysm, they will still jump into it.

Man and woman are the magnetic field which creates by the nature. Some even says that marriage is actually a trade, woman pay out their bodies and energy to take care of man, in respond, man take the responsibility to support the life of woman and children.

Unhappy marriages have all kinds of reasons, then what about happy marriage? Actually, as long as you inspect it carefully, all of happy marriages have one common, that is mutual tolerance and trust. When two persons fall in love and get married at last, it is unavoidable to face some troules and contradictions. There is an old saying that all the enemies and lovers are doomed to be together, then how to resolve these invisible contradictions? If tolerance is the essence of life, how to be tolerated.

Some people may propose their different opinions: how to tolerate and trust others? When two people are both breaking out, how to tolerate each other? In fact, marriage is just like a war, when the troubles are coming, the worst thing is to happen the inner war, the enemies have not take any action, the inner organization has already in disorder, this war would fail definitely.

As a matter of fact, it is easy to be tolerated, it is just to show your weakness or pretend to be silly timely. What we called weak and silly here is not the real weak and silly. The contradictions happen between the couples are almost some trifles, if they should be took on the table, then it is sure that they would develop into a big contradiction, and if things go on like this, how many beats  the marriage castle can endure? I’m afraid that several times after it only leaves a pile of dust. Why not just pretend silly and weak when we are facing the problems of parents, finance and children. Your strong attitude only can stimulate their reversal mind, at that time, you may win a sudden happiness, while you will lose the chance to be more closer. Don’t forget that man needs to boost, while woman needs to flatter. The problem of face is a tradition for man, if you really want to overthrow the tradition which is last for thousands of years, then you will certainly lose more.

It is necessary to emphasize the right of woman, but if it takes use in marriage, you are totally wrong. Woman is like water, if woman are all as strong as man, then it does not need man in the world now, if two men exist in marriage, can it hold for long, except that you are gays, otherwise, the condition of a woman and a man is much more suitable for rule of marriage.

Woman is woman after all, softness and coquetry is always their trump weapon, if a woman forget her role as woman, often being the strong position, then her man would not live just like a man. Here it doesn’t mean that woman should have no self-determination before man, but cultivate your husband the sense of responsibility to the family by concession in some situations, while it is the same for the man, why not put down your self-respect sometimes, a hug can solve a lot of troubles.

In the times of 1980s, the conservative people began to have deep interest in opposite sex, although there are a lot of forthgoer bravely tasting the forbidden fruit, they are also mainly the punished objects for college authority, so the trend of falling love first, and then get married is very popular, even though the rate of success is rare, they are getting along with each other well generally.

Until the 1990s, those hosts of youth are almost ending emotional drift and create their families, the younger generation don’t feel shamed about talking about sex, and start the trying of living together first, and then falling in love, it is also called trial marriage in academics. With the opening of chinese economy, the new fashionable generation of after 80s enter a more shocked trial: pregnant first, and then getting married.

The popularity of any kind of social phenomenon would have a reason, some relate responsible person combine the background of times and point out that it may be connected with the more and more open and advanced society, it is sure for one thing about this phenomenon, the child is definitely their own, some social expects warn that nowadays the child can only be sure to belong the mother, the so popular paternity testing has verified the fact. While praising the more and more loose and open marriage environment, the related authority also strictly points out that there still exists the disturb from sex discrimination, and excluding the case of some couples in order to have a boy conceiving before marriage, if it is a girl, they will take induced abortion which will save a lot of troubles. It is said that the sex rate in Guangzhou has already exceeded, the average level in some villages even are higher than the whole province.

According to the actual situation of chinese countryside, the policy of family planning has done some adjustment, which can make sure that the majority farmer have a son in one family. The files of fifth population census shows that the recent rate of man and woman is 116.9:100, if the baby birth rate developed as the presents, until the year of 2020, the number of chinese marriage age man will be larger more than 30-40 million, that means every five man would have one can no find girlfriend. In the province which trial pregnant is so popular, the population rate of man and woman in Guangdong province has greatly disbalanced, it has reached 130:100, the second baby rate is 180:100. The result of the phenomenon pregnant first, then married is really terrible.

A friend migrating to America is back recently, at the lunch time, she memtioned that some people from south korea are not confident any more, they like to claim themselves to be chinese before American. That makes me so surprised that fews years ago we are still fond of the culture of south korea, why they change so fast? There is only one answer to explain it: china has developed into a powerful country.

When talking about how does she feel after back to motherland, she said objectly that china has really grew up, the change is obvious and great. The street is more wider, house is more higher, the urban appearance is more beautiful, nightscape is more bright, which is changed a lot comparing with the year 2005, but she also implicitly said that she did not dare to drive on the road.

I know what did she mean, because she is not the only one person to say that, several years ago, I drove airport to pick up a canada friend, she also said it on my car. She grabed my hand on one side, asked me to drive slowly on the other side. Then I told her that if we drove in her speed, it would have a long time to reach the destination. Her words made me think about a experience one of my friend.

That happened in France, he and two old writers went to the countryside by taxi, it was rainy day with strong wind, on the road a wagon was always stopping them, there were two beauty in the car, their carwheel curled up dust which dirtied my friend’s front windshield. Then he said to the driver: can we overtake it? The driver answered that it was not polite overtaking on such kind of situation. when they were still discussing, the wagon before them stopped, and a gentleman came over and whispered to his driver, then back to his car and driving their wagon into the side of road. Afterwards, he asked the driver about what that gentleman has said to him, the driver told him that: he said it was not fair that their car was always before ours, he also said he did not want to let the two lady in his car think that it should be like that. These words made my friend feel shamed for several days.

Even though the korean claim them to be chinese, when the Japanese begin to claim they are also chinese, then we are really entering a moderizational society, all we need to do is to improve the level of our spirits civilization on the basis of material civilization, then it would not be too far for Japanese to claim they are chinese.